http://zenhabits.net/one-skill/
reading this post inspired me for my own.
its pretty simple.
life always brings one main struggle. the feeling of not being good enough.
everyone deals with it in different ways...
your reach a new point, a new era once you realize that everyone feels like this.
everyone has something negative to say. even if the most beautiful people feel hopelessly insecure
i think i have stocky legs, no boobs, and awful acne. but i'll tell you what i still know that i am beautiful.
because no one is perfect and you will always exaggerate your negatives more than your positives.
living in a sorority has shown me that no matter how beautiful you are there is always something that could be better. this applies not only physically but in your life as well.
you need better grades, better jobs, a really good internship, you should be president of 5 different clubs and involved in 5 more besides that, you should have the nicest clothes and look perfect 24/7. i mean seriously???? how much pressure is that???
realistically no one can check off all those things. and its not healthy either.
i had my own struggle with perfection. and it can drive a person to insanity.
never again will i go that route. it may be easy to enter when i am lonely, sad, and angry which is ultimately why i took that path from the start
but now i am so much smarter from my past and mentally very strong to understand myself emotionally.
and that is why i love that post.
because nothing in this world feels better then knowing that i have achieved this one skill.
its like i am already one-ahead of everyone else.
nothing more would i love to show everyone how to be like this.
